Tuesday, April 18, 2006
Museum on caste
The Friedan Mystique
Monday, April 03, 2006
Fusion and synthesis
Sunday, April 02, 2006
Consensus, synchronicity, and solidarity
Monday, March 20, 2006
Where shall I go!
For which I am only a trustee
As a tribal, I am duty bound
To pass it on to the generation next! Who would shift the banyan tree!
And the village spirits lying underneath.
What would happen to the streams?
Singing praises in the names of God,
And the rocks lying there,
Our monuments for ages. I will set my ancestors free,
Whose spirits I had installed in the home;
I am not sure,If they won't be angry,
As I failed to preserve things, given to me.
They were lucky,They knew no state,
No king ever ruled them before. After I leave the land,
They would build the modern temple
For making gold out of earth.
A new era would dawn
With promises of more happiness;
And I know not for sureIf it means anything
To me or people like me.
Lush diversity and freedom
Wednesday, March 15, 2006
The great Indian train journey
Wednesday, February 08, 2006
The problems of home life
Monday, February 06, 2006
The torch just passes on to you and me
- So has the battle been won?
- At least in this part of the world?
- Can we all go back home victorious and wait for the food to appear on the table?
- Not so fast. Just switch on the television set, or read one of those “lifestyle” pieces (remember Maureen Dowd’s book?) that seem to appear with astonishing regularity in the NY Times? Or just look around you. How many of your co-workers slipped into suburban obscurity over the past few years?
- Can we really deny that in this country, we are still “taught to pity the neurotic, unfeminine, unhappy women who wanted to be poets or physicists or presidents?”
- Can we really claim that we as a society don’t measure a woman’s worth by the man she ends up with?
And until a day arrives when we can make that claim, here or in any other part of the world, Betty Friedan’s work is not finished. The torch just passes on to you and me. Update: Do read R~’s tribute to Friedan at Locana. posted by Veena @ 3:59 PM 0 comments
Monday, January 30, 2006
Integral Relationship
e-mail addiction
- Do you tell your e-mail program to check for messages automatically every two minutes — and then disbelieve it when it comes up empty?
- Have you learned to hesitate before answering a new message so it doesn't look as though you were hunched over the keyboard, waiting?
- Do you secretly think of lunch as a time for your inbox to fill up?
But the clearest sign of e-mail addiction is simply to ask yourself, what is the longest you've gone without checking your e-mail in the past two months? Anything longer than a broken night's sleep is good.
Friday, January 20, 2006
What's Happened to Asian Values?
Break between state and civil society
Wednesday, January 11, 2006
Religion and sex
Tuesday, January 10, 2006
Marriage Today
Monday, January 09, 2006
Pleasure cannot be outlawed
Monday, December 26, 2005
She came to break the conventions and superstitions
Friday, December 23, 2005
Liberated society has confused itself
Thursday, December 22, 2005
The cultural development is more valuable than the service of the physical needs
Letters on Yoga Volume 1 Section Nine
Saturday, December 17, 2005
My son, your son and AIDS
Modernism in Miranda
Friday, December 16, 2005
I've always wondered how you adjusted?
Sharon: It is interesting how there are so many parallels in both our lives in our experiences in alien lands. You went to Mexico with no language - neither English nor Spanish, no hearing, no money! And I came to India on a tiny scholarship, at an young age to pursue dance, not knowing the language, not knowing where I was going to stay, not knowing how safe it was... And to top it all, both of us didn't look alien in the countries we opted for!
Satish: But that was more of an advantage! We merged into the people seamlessly and didn't stick out!
Sharon: What was you motivation? How did you have the nerve?
Satish: I was always drawn to murals. Easel painting was for drawing rooms. Whether one painted the bourgeoisie or the revolution, it was going to land up in someone's drawing room! And I wanted to share my arts with everyone! And when I heard that Mexico was the place where murals were being taught, I knew there was where I had to go! Except I didn't even know where it was on the map! It didn't have an embassy here! I was the first Indian to go there. My mother said it was where the Pandavas had gone when they had to go to Paatal lok! My brother (I.K. Gujral) saw an advertisement offering scholarships to study there, he insisted that I apply. He said, what do you have to lose? And Octavio Paz, the poet and then the Mexican envoy to India, said: All that could be negative is already there, anything else can only be positive!
Sharon: That's the poet for you! When I landed, it was a horrible living experience. I decided to live as a paying guest with a family who went away to Shimla for a month, leaving me at the mercy of a small servant, who didn't understand the language, could barely cook and I didn't know if it was safe to go out to eat, what to buy, etc! Mind you, it was nearly three decades ago!
Satish: When I landed there after much high drama, it was rather tough as well. On the day I arrived, there was a change of government and all the civil servants and political honchos changed! And language was a huge problem. I met an American architect who offered to teach me English if I taught him Hindi. While I picked up English, he didn't go very much further with his Hindi! You are a dancer, how come I see you always with artists and not so much artistes?
Sharon: Ever since I came to India, I've had better relations with visual artists rather than dancers! There was more readiness by individuals to share rather than stonewall!
Satish: I've always wondered how you adjusted? A white woman, beautiful, alone... It was very inviting - not that men anywhere need too much invitation!
Sharon: My safety was in numbers. And I made sure that I didn't meet people in private. I was very social and hung out a lot with Shankho Choudhry, Biren De, G.R. Santosh, Shanti Dave, Himmat Shah - who were like protective uncles. I went out with so many different people to various places like art shows, dance and music concerts that some people must have thought that I was having an affair with several people! I knew if I had an Indian boyfriend, and if that relationship were to not work out for some reason, all my connections would collapse. Besides, I didn't think I was beautiful!
Satish: Were you so modest or so naïve! How did you make sure these artists didn't misunderstand?
Sharon: They came. They tried. But when they realised that it was not going to go any further, they went away to try elsewhere, but there were others who found me interesting and stayed anyway! Then I started taking my daughter. Since I didn't look western, I felt I had to uphold Indian values! You are the only male that I kiss! And that's because you are safe and I love you!
Satish: I think I should be offended at that safe epithet! But I learnt in life to play safe!
Sharon: No that's because you've got a more wonderful woman in your life at home, whom you love at least 100 per cent more than anyone else! You are one man who really appreciates women in the classical sense of the term and there are not that many men who appreciate women and one wants to be appreciated by someone one respects. Touche!
Thursday, December 15, 2005
India’s strong family bonds.
- The family is held together by hierarchy.
- There’s no room for equality in a traditional family set-up.
- The “higher” and “lower” is determined by seniority, or by the proximity of relationship.
- The entire cosmos is kept functional by the way each member knows his/her position in relation to the others.
- There can be no serious challenge to authority because traditionally authority is determined by extraneous factors, such as age, gender, and kinship, or sometimes by ritual authority, but not by such vague concepts as knowledge, experience, or wisdom.
- The assumption is that with age, knowledge, skill and wisdom increase as well.
- The hierarchy and non-equality of the Indian family is, I wish to emphasise, mostly a comfortable one.
Monday, December 12, 2005
Pratibha Shakti
Pratibha Prahlad to revive Lok Shakti The battle for Hegde legacy is on. After most of his family members joined the BJP, his long-time companion has now decided to revive the party he founded in 1996. From B S ARUN : Deccan Herald Saturday, March 13, 2004
Well-known dancer and late Ramakrishna Hegde’s long-time companion Pratibha Prahlad is all set to revive the Lok Shakti, the party he founded in 1996. Pratibha, who was associated with Hegde for 15 years till his death, is likely to take over as president of the party at its national executive on March 15.